If you enjoy the aesthetics of a huge female bodybuilder and want to attract such a woman, consider the following three tips. They are just three of many tips learned from guys who have dated these muscular women.
First, you must work on being comfortable with yourself so that you are completely free of jealousy. Her physique is going to attract lots of attention and judgement, so you probably will not be the one getting attention. You have to be cool with that and let her know, in a subtle manner, that you are the type of man who can be comfortable in any situation. This will show a muscular woman, such as a massive female bodybuilder, that you are not jealous or intimidated by her physique and attention.
Second, have the humility to know that you are not perfect and that you require work on your personality. Take tangible steps to improve yourself by volunteering, learning how to meditate, taking classes on “change work” (NLP or a similar study), or improving your character based on any religious values you value. Showing not only the desire, but the actual dedication, to self-improvement can show a woman that you are serious about getting better. This, in turn, could mean that she will benefit as well.
Finally, be athletic yourself. Remember that the muscularity of a huge female bodybuilder, especially if she competes or gets lots of photo shoots, can be a significant portion of her world. So pick up an activity or sport which you enjoy for yourself. Even if it is cycling, running marathons, or another endurance sport you will have a common ground to discuss training and nutrition. If nothing else, at least you can go on a fun date shopping for healthy food!
It should also be noted that you must always act with class and protect her security. While humor, significant positive cash flow, and social status are all great assets you must always have her physical and emotional security at the forefront of your mind and a priority. Just because she might bench press more than you, a woman (even a massive female bodybuilder) will want to feel safe enough to be herself in your company.
If you are not at the level where you can offer a woman these traits then do yourself a favor. Take some time out of the dating arena and really work on developing these traits. Once you have focused and made significant improvements in these areas then you can resume dating again.